How to Know When You’re Getting Stood Up

"She is not coming - Give it up"

“She is not coming – Give it up”

Going out on dates is a lot of fun. You get to spend the whole day feeling the buildup of excitement as you get ready to see her. You probably spend your entire routine thinking about how the date is going to go. Whether you’re in the shower or trimming up your beard, you’re fired up. You’re ready to go out and have a great time. If you’re lucky, you’ll even manage to really impress the woman you’re meeting. She said she’d meet you someplace, so you head on out the door to get there a little early. Once you arrive, you settle in and wait for her to show up. A little bit of waiting starts to turn into a lot of waiting. After a while, you might start to worry that she’s had an accident or that some other bad thing has happened. Chances are, though, you’re just getting stood up. It sucks, but it’s a part of life. Sometimes women are just going to leave you out in the cold. How can you tell the difference between being late and getting stood up, though? It’s easy, and here’s how you can do it.

The Restaurant is Closing and She’s Not There

How long have you been waiting for her? If you’ve gone through seven glasses of water and two bread baskets, it’s time to throw in the towel. She’s not showing up. When the bartender is shouting for last call or your server says, “We’re closing, sir,” you better pack it in. It’s hard to admit, but she stood you up. Go home and send her a message to see if she has an excuse. You might not even want to message her. Why bother with someone who would leave you hanging like that?

She Sees Your Messages but Won’t Answer Them

"She isn't paying attention to your messages"

“She isn’t paying attention to your messages”

Plenty of popular messaging sites allow you to see when other users view the messages you send. This can be pretty handy. If you’re waiting around for her, try shooting her a few messages. Ask her where she is, and when she’ll be arriving. If she sees what you said but doesn’t reply, that’s not good news. It means she’s trying to ignore you. You can expect to get stood up if that keeps happening. Don’t waste your time. Just head on home instead and leave her in the dust.

You Show Up to a Weird Place to Meet Her

Did she give you an address where you were supposed to pick you up? Sometimes, you might end up with a fake address. If you show up at an abandoned building or a burned out factory, she’s probably not inside getting ready. You’ve been duped. Don’t sit around waiting to get carjacked, either. Slam on the accelerator to get out of there! You don’t want your car to get chopped up for parts. This is why you should always check out the addresses women give you. Make sure they lead to a real house before you leave yours!



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