How to Tell if You’re Just Her Booty Call

"She only calls you when she is horny"

“She only calls you when she is horny”


There are different types of dating styles out there, which can really make it confusing when you’re trying to figure out what kind of relationship you have with a woman. Some dating relationships are in the beginner stages where you’re both still learning about each other. Some are focused on having as much fun with each other as you possibly can without worrying too much about the future. Some are focused entirely on growing and becoming more and more committed. And then you have the ones that are focused entirely on sex. While a lot of guys are going to think the last example is the best one, this isn’t necessarily the case for men who are actually interested in being in a serious relationship. It can be kind of hard to figure out if she actually likes you or if she only wants you for sex, but if you pay attention to the details you should be able to understand which it is.

She Knows You Best Naked

"She likes to see you naked"

“She likes to see you naked”


If she spends more time acquainting herself with your naked body than any other aspect of you, it’s pretty clear that she’s just using you for sex. Sometimes it’s tough to spot this, particularly if you both lead busy lives. However, if she only seems to call you when she’s horny when you know she’s had some time off, it’s because you’re basically her version of the booty call. You might be okay with this or you might not, and if it’s the latter you’re probably going to want to start looking for a woman who shows interest in other parts of who you are.

She Doesn’t Want to Socialize

Socializing is a part of dating. How much so depends on what type of people you both are. However, if she’s putting in zero effort to actually socialize with you outside of the bedroom, it’s probably because you’re just a sexual outlet for her. This could be kind of insulting if you were hoping she liked you because you were funny and outgoing, but if you’re just happy to be getting laid it probably won’t bother you that much.

She Won’t Introduce You to Anyone

"She will avoid introducing you to anybody"

“She will avoid introducing you to anybody”


Another normal part of dating is to introduce each other to your groups of friends. However, if she absolutely refuses to bring you to places where her friends are hanging, it’s probably because she doesn’t see you as actual relationship material. She’s only using you for casual hookups, which means that she doesn’t think you’ll be around for very long and therefore there’s no point in introducing you to the other people in her life.

She Hates Dates

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If you’ve been trying to romance her up by taking her out on fun dates but she keeps turning you down flat, it’s probably because dating is not what she has in mind. As far as she’s concerned you’re a means to a sexual end, not a prospective boyfriend. Again, you’ll either be okay with this or you won’t, and if you’re not you can always bail on her and start looking for a woman who’s actually interested in a relationship.

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