Knowing When the Time is Right to Bring Her Back to Your Place

"Wait for another two drinks"

“Wait for another two drinks”

If you’ve been dating a woman for a little while, you’ve probably also been playing the guessing game as to how soon is too soon to bring her back to your place. If you ask too soon, chances are she’s going to think you’re a sex-crazed fiend who only wants her body. On the other hand, if you leave it too long she’s going to get pissed and think you’re not really interested in committing. In order to avoid both of these less than awesome scenarios, you need to pay attention to how your relationship is going and how into you she seems to be.

You’re Both Obviously Horny

"Get a room already!"

“Get a room already!”

With some women, the lust is going to be obvious right away. With others, it might take a while for you to figure out if she wants you or not. If the spark is immediate and strong between you and still going strong after a few dates, it’s time to bring her on back to your place. If you’re one of the really lucky dudes, you might even be able to swing this on the first date. However, chances are good that you’ll have to wait a few before this is a possibility. An obvious sign that she’s ready to visit your pad is if she can’t keep her hands off you (and vice versa), or if she keeps bringing up the fact that she can’t wait to get you into bed. If that’s the case, what the hell are you waiting for?

You’ve Seen Her Place

If she’s brought you over to her place already, then it’s more than past time for you to bring her back to yours. Once she’s shown you where she lives it’s as if she’s given you the thumb’s up in regards to you showing her yours. Don’t get too excited, though-she might not have sex in mind in wanting to check out where you live, so leading her through the door and dropping your pants might be a very good idea until she’s given you the indicator that she’s hot and ready to go.

You’ve Burnt out on Dates

"Staying in isn't such a bad idea - you can have a romantic evening at home"

“Staying in isn’t such a bad idea – you can have a romantic evening at home”

Maybe you’ve been out on the town so much lately through dates that the two of you are completely burnt out on restaurants, pubs, and bars. If she mentions the fact that just staying in with you would be a nice change, it’s a sign that she’s ready to see your place. If that’s the deal, make sure you do some cleaning before she shows up. Otherwise, your massive piles of laundry and unwashed dishes are going to create a less than romantic atmosphere. You want her to feel comfortable at your place, not worried that insects and rodents lurk somewhere in all the chaos.

You’ve Met Her Family


If you’ve met her family but she hasn’t yet seen where you live, you need to remedy that ASAP. Meeting the family is a huge step forward in dating, so you need to take the leap and bring her on home to see where you dwell. Even if you’re uncomfortable sharing your space, remember that it’ll seem weird and off-putting if you try to keep her away from it for too long.


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