Talking Dirty: How to Do It Right

"Learn the right words to turn her on"

“Learn the right words to turn her on”

Getting in the groove when you’re in the bedroom is important. If you can’t get yourself in the mood for sex, you’re not going to have fun. The woman you’re hooking up with isn’t going to appreciate it very much, either. That’s why you should always be looking for ways to spice up the action. You need to keep things interesting. If you don’t, that sexy lady in your bed could leave you with an empty room before too long. One of the easiest ways to keep things interesting without getting complicated is by talking dirty. By adding a little filth to your conversation during sex, you can really take things to the next level. You might be surprised at how much it starts turning you on when she says naughty things. You might also get caught off guard when she starts responding to all the things you’re saying! If you want to talk dirty to her, you’ve got to do it right. Doing it wrong could just end up with her laughing at you. You don’t want that. Instead, focus on getting her in the moment!

Don’t Call Her Rude Names Without Permission

When you’re talking dirty, using words you wouldn’t normally say is part of the game. That includes calling her names that you would never use in polite conversation. It’s all fun and games, but that doesn’t mean that you can actually disrespect her. Before you get to the bedroom, stop to have a conversation about what you’re about to do. Ask her what kinds of words she is and is not comfortable using during sex. That way you’ll know what to avoid saying right from the get go. Now, you won’t have any problems in the middle of the act.

Don’t Forget to Ask Her if She Likes Things

"The sex will be amazing"

“The sex will be amazing”

You can use dirty talk as a way to figure out how you’re doing during sex, too. All you have to do is ask her whether or not she enjoys what you’re doing at a moment. Saying things like “Do you like that?” or “How does it feel when I do this?” are great ways to get her involved. She has to give you an answer, so it will keep your naughty conversation going. Ask her these questions a lot. They’ll help you figure out how to pleasure her better!

Tell Her Exactly What You’re Going to Do

Sometimes, part of the fun in having sex is not knowing what’s going to happen next. The opposite can be just as exciting, though. When you’re about to change things up in the middle of sex, tell her all about it. Describe in detail what you’re planning to do to her. You can even keep doing this once you’ve already started. By narrating the sex to her, it makes things even more intimate and hot for her. You’ll find that she’ll get way more into things if you start talking like this. Spend some time beforehand thinking up new things to do! That way you’ll always have a new exciting trick.



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