Focus is the true friend of a man looking to hook up online. It’s too easy to write a generic dating profile when you need something really specific. There’s simply too much going on for you to hope a woman finds your profile and thinks of casual sex. You need to crafty your profile so that you reek of friends with benefits status and women who are looking for that kind of relationship are drawn to you. Here are four easy fixes to keep you hooking up round the clock.
Get the Hot Profile Pic You Want
Profile pictures are so important. A full body shot is great. Waist and up is okay as well, especially if you’re showing off those killer abs. No matter what you have, though, you should have your face. If you have to choose between hot body and putting your face up, put up your face. Women like being able to see a man’s face, and you’ll get more answers if she knows that you really look like. Make sure that you’re not looking directly into the camera; a lot of women subconsciously find that too eager, and you can really hurt your chances.
Keep Things Concise
A no strings attached profile shouldn’t read like a legal contract. Cut the jargon and the euphemisms and just tell women what you want. One of the two of you has to be direct, right? A woman who wants to hook up ASAP isn’t going to take the time to read all about your hobbies. Summarize. Condense. Make your profile do more with less until you have only a few really solid paragraphs. This will hook her in and keep her interested while she decides whether or not to respond to that message you sent.
Mention Your Kinks
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One sure fire way to set your profile apart from those looking for a love connection is to just mention your kinks. Whatever they are, just add a little note at the bottom about how you’d love to meet ladies interested in “insert fetish here” for casual fun. Don’t make a big deal out of it and you’ll be surprised how many kinky women are out there who just needed a sign that it was safe to come forward. Also, even if you’re vanilla you should list something sexual, like your favorite position. That will also work to get attention, though not as well.
Mention Specific Date Ideas
Even if you want no strings casual sex now, you should still meet the women first. This means that you need to include some specific and sexy date ideas. Good ways to get started are to look for good places for public sex (say, the local park) and suggest heading there for a naughty picnic. Or you can meet in a hotel bar and try your best pick-up lines before going up to your room. No matter what you choose it should sound fun and, while not explicitly sexual, could very well lead to a fun romp without too much effort.