Signs You’re Interested in a Sex-Only Relationship

As any dude who’s in the dating game knows, things can get confusing as to what you really want and what you think you need. Sometimes it’s easy to confuse emotion with lust and vice versa, which can really complicate things unnecessarily. Before you go committing yourself to something long-term with a woman, you need to make damn sure that you know what you’re really after. If you say yes to committed dating but you’re really only interested in how the two of you are in bed together, you’re setting yourself up for a disastrous break-up somewhere down the line. Learn to recognize what you’re really looking for and you’ll be able to avoid all kinds of messes. You Don’t Like Her Company Just because you want someone doesn’t mean you need to like them. In fact, some of the best sexual hookups stem from people who don’t necessarily like each other. If you find that spending time with her outside of bed is taxing and tedious, it’s a clear sign that you’re just not that into her in a dating sense. The same goes if you can’t stand most of what she says or does (outside sex, of course). Basically, if the only time you want to be around…

Psyching Yourself Up for a First Date

Dating isn’t easy for everyone, particularly those who have a few insecurities (which is pretty much everyone alive). If you’ve been out of the dating game for a while, it can be even tougher. If you’re recently putting yourself back out there on the market and you’ve got a first date looming, you’re probably either really nervous or really unsure (or both). This doesn’t mean that you’re automatically headed for disaster, however. There are easy ways for you to psych yourself up for a first date to ensure you’re at the top of your game. Remember She’s Searching Too It’s easy to feel like a loser because you’ve struck out on love and are still looking for a connection, but you need to remember that you’re date is obviously having the same problem, otherwise she wouldn’t be here. It’s hard not to feel this way if all your friends and family are in committed relationships, but you need to keep in mind that finding a partner that you connect with on all levels is not always easy. In fact, for some people it’s damn hard. There’s no shame in being single, so don’t let that get you down. Turn on the positive thinking-after all, this might be the date that…

First Date Indicators: Casual or Long-Term?

While it’s tough to figure out where a relationship is headed after a first date, it’s not impossible. There are going to be all kinds of hard-to-read signs that will give you a good idea as to whether this woman is long-term, commitment material or whether she’s casual hookup material. Of course, unless you know how to spot these signs you probably won’t have any idea where things are headed after that first meeting. If you’d like to be able to know what possibilities there are, you need to be able to identify all the first date indicators and interpret what they mean. Fortunately for you, it’s really not all that hard. She’s Distant You might think that the fact that she constantly checks her phone or avoids eye contact with you is because she’s shy, but chances are that what she’s doing is keeping herself distant from you on purpose. If she really makes no attempt to bond with you or share some things about herself, it’s because she doesn’t think you’re right for her. Instead of forcing yourself to play along until the night is over, you can cut your losses early and call her on it. She’ll either be relieved that you agree that this won’t work…

3 Date Ideas to Include in Your Profile

You should always include a date idea or two in your profile. These are concrete examples of things that you and your date could do together. They’re there to help the women who view your profile imagine what it would be like to go out with you. They know that you’re going to have a great idea lined up for your date even if they don’t really want to go on any of the dates that you suggest in your profile. They know that you’re thinking outside the box and that’s enough to start with. Coffee and Forbidden Conversation If you want to turn a boring date extraordinary, go for the usual coffee date and then make the following rule: you’re going to break all the coffee date rules! The rules for coffee dates include but are not limited to “No politics, no talking about your mother, and no talking about your ex.” If you want to increase the intimacy of a date, however, you can let your potential girlfriend know that you’re going to be knocking all these topics out of the park. Just treed with care and make sure that she’s sharing as much as you are. Something Heavy in Fitness Your profile should also have a fitness…

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